I’m assuming that you’ve had enough of playing nice and walking the line of order, only to gain the opposite of what you want in life. Every day, we encounter endless battles justifying our self-righteous needs and fighting the guilt that comes with enjoying our indulgences while pleasing others. How exceptional would it be if we could put out fires and confidently gain everything we desired out of life without hurting people’s feelings? The truth is, feelings are just what they are. They’re not always yours, and they’re not really logical either. Harsh yet honest. One important lesson I’ve learned in the past three years is the understanding of the seven universal laws, and I think the Law of Polarity fits well here. Everything has a dual nature, you can’t have right without wrong, and this notion is understood in the matter of perception. What is good to you may be evil to someone else and vice versa. There’s a duality in all of us and the universe.
We just have to find a balance as we walk the quest to manifest our desires. So the art here is confidence. Confidence comes with knowing who you really are inside and out, having a heightened self-awareness that empowers your decision-making skills. This will not only enable you to make choices without feeling guilty but help you to understand how you connect and contribute to your surroundings. When you’re confident about what you want and how to manifest it into your reality, your high vibration will place you on a plane of higher understanding. Thus, you won’t have time to worry about what everyone is doing or saying about you because you’ll be doing what is best for you. Sometimes it’s easier said than done, but with practice, it’ll become easier to execute. Below are useful reading resources to help you along the way.
All the best.